How to return unwanted gifts and presents
Well, the mince pies have been eaten, the wine drunk and chances are you’re a tad bored of turkey. Now comes the delight of working out what to do with your unwanted Christmas gifts. That jumper from Auntie Beryl? That tie from Uncle Bob? What to do?
Retailers are under no legal obligation to refund or exchange an item unless it is faulty. In practice most will allow you to exchange your unwanted gift for something else or give you a credit voucher – and some will even give you a cash refund if you ask for one.
But policies can vary… so here are my Living Top Tips for Returning Unwanted Christmas gifts.
1) Don’t wait around and don’t spoil the packaging
If Auntie B did her Christmas shopping weeks early, the standard 28 day period for returning goods might be very close to past by the time you hit the high street in early January to return that jumper. Many large-brand retailers relax their normal 28-day return period post-Christmas and allow you to return unwanted gifts up to the end of January, but it makes sense to get in there early. Many retailers require the original packaging for items such as DVDs or CDs to be unopened. So if you’ve politely opened your gift and ooh-ed and ahh-ed to keep the peace, you may well have to keep the pressie.
2) If you want a refund, make sure you have the receipt…
Increasing numbers of retailers provide Gift Receipts these days. They’re a proof of purchase that doesn’t show the price paid, so they can be included with a gift without letting on how much it cost. Take the present back with Gift Receipt and you should have no problem getting an exchange or vouchers. If you’re after a cold, hard cash refund however, it’s harder. Gift Receipts often won’t do. The retailer may well only give you vouchers or an exchange. So, if you want cash, it’s better to ask the person who bought you the gift for the original purchase receipt and go along armed with it. Some retailers will allow you a cash refund without a receipt, but it’s by no means guaranteed.
3) …unless the present was bought with a credit or debit card
Many presents are bought with a credit or debit card these days. You’re highly unlikely to be able to get a cash refund if this was the case. Any refund given has to go back to the card account that was debited to buy the product. If you know the present was bought with a credit card, you want a cash refund and you don’t mind being economical with the truth (shame on you), don’t offer the shop staff your receipt. If you do, it’s highly likely the refund will have to be credited to the card used to buy it. You’re better off explaining that you don’t have the receipt and asking, nicely (see Tip 5 below), for a cash refund. You never know, it might work.
4) Ask.. even if you don’t have a receipt
Many retailers will at least give you an exchange or vouchers if you don’t have a receipt, and as explained above some will even give you a cash refund if you ask nicely. Be aware though that the value of the refund or exchange will almost certainly be the value of the product at the time you return it. So if there’s a 50% January sale on and your item has been marked down, you’ll probably get back less in the way of refund value or vouchers than was originally spent to buy it.
4) Be ready with your exchange item
If you know there’s something else in the same shop that you want, take it along with you to the returns desk and ask for an exchange straight away. It’s always much easier to get an exchange rather than a cash refund or credit voucher. You’re always in a much stronger negotiating position if you already know what you want.
5) Be nice, smile
Let’s face it, there will probably be a queue. You’ll end up arriving at the counter with your unwanted jumper feeling just a tad hot and hassled. Take a deep breath. Remember that the people at the returns desk will have been inundated all day with people demanding their money back or asking for exchanges. You’re much more likely to get your refund or exchange sorted out without hassle if you make a point of being nice. Stores will have policies, but they are not always hard and fast. Sometimes it really is up to the returns desk staff to make a decision themselves.
6) Be aware of the added complications of presents bought online
The net has been huge for purchasing presents. Buying online is quick and convenient. Returning gifts bought online less so. If your present was purchased from the online arm of a high street retailer, many will allow you to take you unwanted gifts back to the high street store, rather than having to pay to mail them back. It’s worth calling in advance to make sure, but HMV, Debenhams, M&S and Tesco all told me this was possible when I called to ask.
If your present was bought from an online retailer that has no high street stores it gets more complicated. Let’s say Uncle Bob bought me ‘Great Fishing Spots of the West Country’ using Amazon.co.uk. Unfortunately I’m not into fishing and want a book about cars. With a bit of luck he’ll have had it mailed directly to me by Amazon as a Gift Order. If he did and I have an account with Amazon I can log on, enter the details, get a return label, mail it back and get a gift certificate to spend on a different book – relatively straightforward.
But if he got it mailed to him and then wrapped it and handed it over to me on Christmas day, there’s no way I can return it without getting him involved. He needs to give me the original order number before I can return it and the credit will have to be applied to his account, not to mine. Ideally returns need to be made using the original packing too. All-in-all, returning unwanted gifts to online retailers is not that simple if you didn’t buy them yourself in the first place.
7) Flog it
Whilst returns are rather problematic online, selling unwanted stuff isn’t. If you’re stuck with an unwanted gift and there’s no easy way to return it, then why not try selling it instead? The obvious place to start is eBay. If you don’t have an account already, you need to set yourself up with one and that takes a while to do, but selling is actually quite good fun!
8 ) Give it away (and feel a bit smug)
Or else, maybe that jumper could be just the ticket for keeping someone else warm this winter? Brand new clothes and other goods are almost always welcome at charity shops. In the current less stable financial times charity shops are booming, so you should have little trouble. Or else try one of the online giveaway communities. Freecycle is one of the most well known. You advertise your item and people who would like it tell you why they want it.
You can choose who you think is the most deserving case – who knows; you might even make some new friends in the process.
Further help and advice
There’s a really excellent guide to consumer rights for returns on the Citizens’ Advice Bureau Website. You can also find out more about your legal rights at Consumer Direct, or your local trading standards office.
IMAGE by Flickr user Paul Keleher
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Originally posted 2008-12-29 06:29:00. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

